✮ = gender headcanons
☂ = orientation (romantic & sexual) hedcanons
✿ = neurodiverse/disability headcanons
people are usually bad but my mutuals……gotta give u props
ms paint ghosties
if my blinds weren’t broken i could coax sparrows into my room, but noooo
chimes: what sounds are your favorite? ahh, i always forget until i hear them again. well, ice cubes cracking when you drop them in a drink. wind pushing up against my house. iiii cant remember others, sorry
reverie: think of somewhere otherworldly u wish to be within, what is it like there? the first thing that came to mind was a forest at dusk, but a special kind of forest that doesnt have scratchy grass or lots of bugs so i can lay down for long periods of time without being annoyed. maybe like a small clearing over looking a different field with lots of that long swirly grass. not really otherwordly, kinda gay, but idc
home: in what type of environment do you feel most safe? well, specifically my room. but characteristics would be? quiet, but with some kind of nonirritating white noise or music i like. no people, except mb grace. small room, but not really really tiny. somewhere with lots of objects, esp furniture.
offering: how do you show others you are fond of them? idk, smiling at them. sharing weird facts or just, things, i’d picked up recently because i want them to be in on what i like or know. showing them my music. trying my best to mirror their body language, when applicable. tbh calling them a loser or dork or piece of garbage or something, b/c we’re friends.
also i am sorry grace i didnt answer this for a long time, you’re the best
visitor: what creature visits your dreams most often? i’ve dreamt a lot about large amounts of rodents in weird circumstances, lately. also pokemon. mainly other people
warmth: what do you find most charming in others? probably a good sense of humor. and genuinely being interested in things you’re saying, even if it’s something they’re unfamiliar with. also: likes me. and being in a state of gay
folk: who is the most fantastical being u have known? the first thing i can think of in terms of ‘fantastical being’ is a long-haired black cat that used to hang around when i was like 5 to 12. i don’t think she was anyone’s cat, but she would hang around with me when i played outside and sat in one place for a long enough time, usually around the field behind my house and the sewer. i called her choco, and she became kinda scarce after i was 7 until i was like 12 and we used to hang around some more. i’m not sure why i would consider her fantastical, probably because of the mystery around her and how she seemed to like no one else. she’s since disappeared and idk if she’s dead, or what
Near Crystal Peak, Park County, Colorado, US.
stop saying “his or her”
piss off prescriptivists
acknowledge nonbinary identities
make your sentences less clunky
advocate for common usage which is what leads to grammatical acceptance
i hate that post that’s like “things that would be nice at 4 am” and the list is like cuddling, backrubs, and romantic stuff and i’m like ???sleep, maybe?